Or maybe more like suggestions to keep in mind….

- Be financially responsible.  At least spend less at Bloomingdale’s.  I started out 2012 with making some changes to my 401K and setting up a LearnVest account to attempt to set a budget that allows for money to put away towards this thing called “savings.”  Then I spent an absurd amount at Bloomingdale’s because it was Friday. 

- Be realistic about what to expect from people.  I have friends that are good for talking about job ambitions or travel, but maybe not emotions.  I have friends that are good to talk to about emotional things, but maybe not city life.  I have friends that rarely go out.  I have friends that can be outrageous flakes.  I have friends that I know I can call for anything.  Know who falls into what category and don’t expect them to be something they’re not.

- Let it go.  If something doesn’t work out the way I plan or imagine, let it go.  Don’t try to control every plan/relationship/opportunity/etc.  Something new will come along that will work out.

- Yes to more new, No to more old.  Go to more events where I don’t know everyone. Try new restaurants and activities. Say no to plans I know I won’t enjoy. Stop letting myself be guilted into things.